CurriculumGrades 9-12Health & Physical Education

Healthy relationships, consent, and sexual health

Aligned to NHES 4 — SHAPE America National Standards.

What this lesson teaches

Healthy relationships are built on respect, honesty, and clear communication, while unhealthy ones involve control, coercion, or disrespect. Consent must be freely and clearly given, and recognizing red flags like jealousy or pressure helps you stay safe. Making informed, responsible decisions about relationships and sexual health is part of becoming an adult.

Worked example

In a healthy relationship, both people feel comfortable saying no without fear, and decisions are made together with mutual respect, not pressure, guilt, or threats.

Practice questions

  1. Name two signs of an unhealthy relationship.
  2. Explain what freely given consent means.
  3. Name a red flag that someone should take seriously.

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En español

Relaciones saludables, consentimiento y salud sexual

Las relaciones saludables se construyen sobre el respeto, la honestidad y la comunicación clara, mientras que las relaciones no saludables involucran control, coerción o falta de respeto. El consentimiento debe darse de manera libre y clara, y reconocer señales de alerta como los celos o la presión te ayuda a mantenerte seguro o segura. Tomar decisiones informadas y responsables sobre las relaciones y la salud sexual es parte del proceso de convertirse en adulto.

Ejemplo: En una relación saludable, ambas personas se sienten cómodas diciendo no sin miedo, y las decisiones se toman juntas con respeto mutuo, sin presión, culpa ni amenazas.

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